40 In Bainbridge Island

First name

Alastdare

I Can Speak

English, French

I Would Describe Myself As

❤️My baseline is LOVE. And time. What I most want is to find a gorgeous, loving, compassionate and loyal transgirl to do this life with in a true partnership. I like time with family & friends, reading, writing, music, travel, entertainment, stimulating heart (body), mind, soul. Ive lately begun to understand more of how I tick in revealing greater visibility of my sexual identity. I crossdress and sometimes its just my comfort zone, and sometimes I want to draw my dream transgirl into my world; I love flimsy fem skirts, sheer, short, stockings, thongs or jockstrap if planning for a partner, heels. I was born an exhibitionist apparently, Im told I was stripping in front of people and playing with myself not long after being born, lol, and mine is the sex of intensity, fun, smashing old roles & limitations, antiquated right & wrong paradigms, agism, sexism, gender labels, Ideas of sexy get expansion, its the vibe, the connection line, the affinities and open mindedness. I love to inspire and seduce and get others comfortable with the idea that male/female/str8t, gay, older, younger, role play, shadow play, re-enactment of past events, or just being there when he discovers and accepts that being attracted and wanting me and letting him ideas/her ideas and allow me to be the one ya can do ANYTHING with, in ecstasy, and it has not one wrong thing about it. With all fun tools/toys, I do myself differently but do common strokes with other folks. My insides seem to feel deeply different, and while cumming right out front is great, when the me & myself deep inside are being given that exquisite tool the cumming is other level and I forget I even have a male member, lol. Ive crossdressing since i was made up like a cute doll by my sis & her friends, and discovered what certain reactions really meant when we did our innocent teaser shows, dancing to pop dance hits trying to give em maximum inspiration.So began my open, free, non judgmental allure, my curiosity that lounged in availability, intent to display it in a layout to engage it, shifting to fem/new at this vibe, but liberated enough to feel I could elicit response. Our house we shared with family, and their college friends & mostly stoned, liberated too, in free love, free sex, no conservative barriers and no shame in exploring oneself. Early 20s free thinking hippies, black & white races together overcoming the divided life by sexualizing it wonderfully. As early as that my inner dial was set from mid-temp to high and rarely dropped, as with the tone and vibe all around.I admired females adept at exciting males and females, both, and loved validation to fill the empty place deep inside left by dads absence. Connecting and gratifying, intimately sparking a wanting closeness, even if outsiders would call it dirty or lewd. I was boldly cuddly, kissy, wiggling myself into personal space constantly, so safe and secure in the arms of a man, next to his heat and love.

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Lips

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Job Title Is

Executor of Charities

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Boisterous, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Volunteering, Shopping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

whatever makes HER happy

I've Always Wanted To Try

something kinda naughty, can't believe that's the first thing just popped into my head

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Perfect, Goofy, A Flirt

I Attend Services

Once A Year

My Political Views Are

Libertarian

My Goal In Life Is

to help others

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

compassion and an open mind, no labels or boxes to live in

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Group Sex, Strap On Sex