A New Girl In Town

Jag kan tala

Engelska

Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som

It's taken me years to come to terms with who I am. For years I've had these feelings of femininity inside of me that I tried to ignore, but they never went away. A few years ago it was suggested by an acquaintance that I explore this and see where it went. This was difficult for me as I had no help or people close to me that I could really talk to.

I really began my transition about eight years ago to be honest. I started by losing weight through a change of eating habits and lots of walking. I guess the first signs of Candice came when I started wearing my hair down instead of tied back all the time. I used to do that to make other people happy.

For as long as I can remember, I preferred my hair long and my nails long, and I would throw a fit when my dad made me get my hair cut. I hated it. I consider myself more TS than TV at this point, though I know around here there are girls way more beautiful than I am. This isn't about looks or sex to me, it's about being happy. I care more about being presentable than passable, though I am working on that. If that's not good enough for some people, I really don't care. I just want to be happy.

I've never really been in a relationship. Women never seemed all that interested in me, so I didn't dwell on it. I don't think most women really want somebody like me. They want a man. But, if there is a woman out there, I'd love to talk. I made the mistake of brushing off a woman at another site because I was surprised she would want to be with me and she said some really nice things to me too. My shyness kicking in, I guess, but a lesson learned.

I'd be interested in meeting others like me too, though I can see where a lot of them are looking for men. I know they'll find the right one too. I know there are a lot of men looking for her too. I've experienced some of that myself as I've gotten more presentable. But most men only want one thing. I know it isn't all of them, but my experiences are I'm either ignored, called a fag by adolescent jerks or it's, "hey baby." I'm not really looking for a man, but we can still talk. I guess you never know.

It's not just about sex to me, and I don't have a lot of experience in that area. Married people are fine to talk to and be friends with, but I refuse to be a home wrecker. I understand the toll divorce can take on a whole family, and it's not a good thing.

Anyway, a little about myself. I am a writer, I like to get out and walk just about every day. I don't have a lot of friends to talk to, but I have a few. I could always have more though. I don't get out much, but I like to go to the city and the clubs once in a while, movies. Shopping is always fun, even if it's just window shopping. So, those are a few things.

Ladies, I know you're out there. Don't be shy. You joined here for a reason. There's nothing wrong with chatting. I will try to respond to any message as long as it's nice, so anybody can message me if they want to.

Stjärntecken

Jungfrun

Min kroppstyp är

Medelmåttig

Min längd är

174 cm

Mina ögon är

Brungröna

Min etnicitet är

Kaukasisk

Mitt civilstånd är

Aldrig varit gift

Jag har barn

Nej

Jag vill ha barn

Osäker

Min bästa kroppsdel är

Hår

Mitt hår är

Bruna

Jag har en eller flera av dessa

Inga husdjur

Villig att flytta

Ja

Min utbildningsnivå är

Del av gymnasiet

Min specialitet är

Konst / Musik / Litteratur

Min arbetstitel är

Writer

Hemma

Allt är lugnt

Jag är rökare

Nej

Jag dricker

Ja - feströker

I skolan var jag

Den utstötta

Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är

Högljudd, Uppmärksam, Reserverad, Blyg

Mina intressen och hobbies är

Nattklubb / Bar, Matlagning, Dansa, Middag, Motion, Familj, Internet, Trädgårdsarbete, Filmer, Musik, Shopping, Sport, TV

Att ha kul innebär för mig

Nattklubb / Bar, Umgås med vänner, Gå ut och shoppa, Gå på konsert, Leka maskerad, Tar det lugnt, Sover, Stanna hemma, Bio

Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att

I think finding a place to have a good conversation would be a good first date. It may be as simple as taking a walk in the park and having a seat on a bench or the grass, going to get a bite to eat or getting a coffee. See if we make a connection, and if not, I'm still open to being friends. I think I'm a good listener. After that, whatever we want want to do, movies, the club, a show, a museum or you make the call. I'm pretty flexible.

Jag har alltid velat prova

There's probably quite a few things. I'd like to travel the world, but I'm not crazy about dealing with the TSA. I'd probably like to do the thing you've always wanted to try, Maybe you've been waiting for somebody to do it with you?

Mina vänner tycker att jag är

Vänlig

Min religion är

Spirituell men inte religiös

Jag går i kyrkan

Aldrig

Mitt mål i livet är

To transition as much I can and not let the things I can't afford to do stop me from trying to be the woman I am. To be the best person I can be and be there for friends and loved ones. To find the person I love, who loves me, and make it last and be fulfilling for both of us.

Min humor är

Klok, Tramsig, Obskyr

På TV tittar jag alltid på

Nyheter, Tecknat, Drama, Dokusåpor, Filmer, Sport, Såpoperor, Repriser

När jag går på bio ser jag alltid

Science Fiction, Komedier, Romantik, Drama, Familj, Tecknat

När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på

Country, Dansband, Hårdrock, Pop, Rap, Rock, Soul

När jag läser föredrar jag följande:

Komik, Fantasy, Fiktion, Historia, Humor, Musik, Nyheter, Satir, Science Fiction, Sport

Det jag tycker är kul är

Taking walks and getting out there, writing, browsing the internet, shopping, going to clubs or movies, spending time with my dad or my friends, good conversation, sharing fun experiences with friends and making new memories

Vad tycker du är attraktivt?

Djärvhet, Empati, Flirtighet, Humor, Intelligens, Känslighet, Spontanitet, Omtänksamhet

Vad letar du efter?

I see there are a lot of interesting choices there, but I prefer to save the bottom selections for private conversation. I'm open to some of that, but what do you want? I think the important thing is that we're both happy. I don't know how many people actually do end up dating here, so if we just end up chatting, that's okay too. I think I am a good listener, so to you girls out there, if you need somebody to talk to, I'm willing to listen. I know how tough it can be for some girls out there.

Vilken form av förhållande söker du?

Vän, Dejt