A New Girl In Town

Eu Sei Falar

Inglês

Me Descreveria Como

It's taken me years to come to terms with who I am. For years I've had these feelings of femininity inside of me that I tried to ignore, but they never went away. A few years ago it was suggested by an acquaintance that I explore this and see where it went. This was difficult for me as I had no help or people close to me that I could really talk to.

I really began my transition about eight years ago to be honest. I started by losing weight through a change of eating habits and lots of walking. I guess the first signs of Candice came when I started wearing my hair down instead of tied back all the time. I used to do that to make other people happy.

For as long as I can remember, I preferred my hair long and my nails long, and I would throw a fit when my dad made me get my hair cut. I hated it. I consider myself more TS than TV at this point, though I know around here there are girls way more beautiful than I am. This isn't about looks or sex to me, it's about being happy. I care more about being presentable than passable, though I am working on that. If that's not good enough for some people, I really don't care. I just want to be happy.

I've never really been in a relationship. Women never seemed all that interested in me, so I didn't dwell on it. I don't think most women really want somebody like me. They want a man. But, if there is a woman out there, I'd love to talk. I made the mistake of brushing off a woman at another site because I was surprised she would want to be with me and she said some really nice things to me too. My shyness kicking in, I guess, but a lesson learned.

I'd be interested in meeting others like me too, though I can see where a lot of them are looking for men. I know they'll find the right one too. I know there are a lot of men looking for her too. I've experienced some of that myself as I've gotten more presentable. But most men only want one thing. I know it isn't all of them, but my experiences are I'm either ignored, called a fag by adolescent jerks or it's, "hey baby." I'm not really looking for a man, but we can still talk. I guess you never know.

It's not just about sex to me, and I don't have a lot of experience in that area. Married people are fine to talk to and be friends with, but I refuse to be a home wrecker. I understand the toll divorce can take on a whole family, and it's not a good thing.

Anyway, a little about myself. I am a writer, I like to get out and walk just about every day. I don't have a lot of friends to talk to, but I have a few. I could always have more though. I don't get out much, but I like to go to the city and the clubs once in a while, movies. Shopping is always fun, even if it's just window shopping. So, those are a few things.

Ladies, I know you're out there. Don't be shy. You joined here for a reason. There's nothing wrong with chatting. I will try to respond to any message as long as it's nice, so anybody can message me if they want to.

Signo

Virgem

Meu Tipo de Corpo:

Mediano

Minha Altura:

1.73 m

Cor dos Olhos:

Cor de avelã

Minha Etnia:

Caucasiana

Minha Situação Conjugal:

Nunca Casado

Com Filhos?

Não

Quer Ter Filhos?

Não Tenho Certeza

Minha Melhor Característica:

Cabelo

Cor de Cabelo:

Marrons

Animais Que Possuo:

Não possuo animais

Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?

Sim

Nível Educacional

Ensino Médio

Especialização

Arte / Música / Literatura

Meu Título de Trabalho É

Writer

Em Casa

Tudo Está Calmo

Eu Fumo

Não

Eu Bebo

Sim - Socialmente

No Colegial, Eu Era Um

Marginal

Meu Comportamento Social É

Barulhento, Observador, Reservado, Tímido

Meus Interesses e Atividades São

Balada em Boates e Botecos/ Sair à Noite para Discotecas e Bares, Cozinhar, Dançando, Jantar, Exercício, Família, Internet, Jardinagem, Filmes, Música, Comprar, Esportes, TV

Minha Ideia De Um Momento Ideal É

Bares / Clubes, Sair Com Os Amigos, Ir Às Compras, Ir A Um Concerto, Jogos de vestir, Relaxar, Dormi, Ficar Em Casa, Cinema

Um Primeiro Encontro Ideal Seria

I think finding a place to have a good conversation would be a good first date. It may be as simple as taking a walk in the park and having a seat on a bench or the grass, going to get a bite to eat or getting a coffee. See if we make a connection, and if not, I'm still open to being friends. I think I'm a good listener. After that, whatever we want want to do, movies, the club, a show, a museum or you make the call. I'm pretty flexible.

Eu Sempre Quis Tentar

There's probably quite a few things. I'd like to travel the world, but I'm not crazy about dealing with the TSA. I'd probably like to do the thing you've always wanted to try, Maybe you've been waiting for somebody to do it with you?

Meus Amigos Me Descrevem Como Sendo

Amigável

Minha Religião É

Espiritualizado Mas Não Religioso

Frequento Serviços

Nunca

Meu Objetivo na Vida É

To transition as much I can and not let the things I can't afford to do stop me from trying to be the woman I am. To be the best person I can be and be there for friends and loved ones. To find the person I love, who loves me, and make it last and be fulfilling for both of us.

Meu Tipo de Humor É

Inteligente, Pateta, Obscuro/a

Na TV, Eu Sempre Assisto

Notícias, Desenhos, Dramas, Seriados, Filmes, Esportes, Novelas, Reprises/Repetições

Quando Eu Vou Ao Cinema, Eu Sempre Vou Para Ver Um

Ficção Científica, Comédia, Romance, Drama, Família, Animação

Quando Eu Ouço Música, Eu Sempre Ouço

Sertaneja, Dance, Metal, Pop, Rap, Rock, Soul

Quando Eu Leio, Eu Sempre Leio

Quadrinhos, Fantasia, Ficção, História, Humor, Música, Notícias, Sátira, Ficção Científica, Esportes

Para mim, Diversão É

Taking walks and getting out there, writing, browsing the internet, shopping, going to clubs or movies, spending time with my dad or my friends, good conversation, sharing fun experiences with friends and making new memories

O Que Você Acha Atraente?

Ousadia, Empatia, Marotice, Humor, Inteligência, Sensibilidade, Espontaneidade, Consideração Pelos Outros

O Que Você Procura?

I see there are a lot of interesting choices there, but I prefer to save the bottom selections for private conversation. I'm open to some of that, but what do you want? I think the important thing is that we're both happy. I don't know how many people actually do end up dating here, so if we just end up chatting, that's okay too. I think I am a good listener, so to you girls out there, if you need somebody to talk to, I'm willing to listen. I know how tough it can be for some girls out there.

Que Tipo de Relacionamento Você Procura?

Amigo, Encontro