widowed: looking for friends
Curiously1951
Hot Springs, Arkansas | Mężczyzna Szukam TS/TV/TG
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angielski
Widzę siebie jako osobę
My lover of 30 years, recently died, and here I am ready to start taking life to the next level: A serious, committed, relationship.
So, IF your in no rush and willing to build a solid friendship foundation, lets talk at length first, before we consider any other options.
As I get further and further past my lovers death, I become more refined in what and who I am; as well as the woman I want to be with me, until death do us part. So, I have to get this out now, before you go thinking I am someone, I am not.
Please understand I was born and raised a New Yorker, first and foremost; which means I have an East Coast Mentality, which is very different from here, in Indiana. (aka I have a tendency to move quickly. LOL!So IF your not ready, don't waste my time by writing to me.)
I'm ONLY looking for an uncommon woman, who possess: assertiveness, self-confidence, independent, is emotionally and financially secure, non-clingy & non-jealous, agnostic, non tobacco product user, who enjoy hugging, holding hands, open mouth kissing n touching and is, in and about the same physically shape and hight as me.
I was just thinking about that word, "Romantic" and I have to say, that is not me!
I realize that IF your a hopeless romantic or wants a man to wait on you, we are both looking for someone that is elusive. The only difference is, men will tell you what you want to hear, just to have sex with you.
I am just a human being that treats you as one and expects the same in return; an equal.
If you want a knight in shinning armor, flowers on Valentine's Day, your birthday or etc., I’m NOT that person. Just block me.
The government or organized religion has no right to tell me what to do on a certain day. I’m not a sheep being let to the slaughter. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. That is how I have lived my life, and will do so until I die.
Imagine if I was a romantic, I would be a womanizer telling you lies?
Since I’m a widow, and my lover and I the lasted 30 years, what does that say? Either she was a fool, or realized what a complimentary asset I was w/o being a silly romantic who had to buy her love with gifts.
I also don’t deal well, with high maintenance women either. “Treat a lady like a lady.” I have two legs, and two arms, and i am not crippled, I can get up and get what I want. You're not my women servant; nor am I your man servant!
As a friend, you will have to pay your own way. I’m not rich, and I can’t afford to pay a woman to be my friend. I’m giver, but I will not be taken. Ask me for a date and I will pay my own way. Will you?
I'm presently nursing arthritis in my left hip. Walking and water exercises has helped.
I have all the material things I can ask for, and I like to have someone by my side; holding hands. NOT in front or behind me, next to me!
FYI: i'm not a team player, i question authority, and i live life on my terms.
i have decided to move to the Hot Springs, AR area in the next year. Time for a change and maybe meet someone special. Is that you?
Being a type 2 diabetic, I am looking past sex; I desire a partner who I can enjoy all other aspects of traveling.
So, If this turns you off, sorry. Better to be advised now, rather than you invest into someone who you think, you can change, and can’t.
I am just a widowed New Yorker moving to AR.
I don't care about your past. I want to know your future plans?
IF it don't include me, than please don't type to me and waste out time.
Type now/meet later.
a traveler, legal name
So, IF your in no rush and willing to build a solid friendship foundation, lets talk at length first, before we consider any other options.
As I get further and further past my lovers death, I become more refined in what and who I am; as well as the woman I want to be with me, until death do us part. So, I have to get this out now, before you go thinking I am someone, I am not.
Please understand I was born and raised a New Yorker, first and foremost; which means I have an East Coast Mentality, which is very different from here, in Indiana. (aka I have a tendency to move quickly. LOL!So IF your not ready, don't waste my time by writing to me.)
I'm ONLY looking for an uncommon woman, who possess: assertiveness, self-confidence, independent, is emotionally and financially secure, non-clingy & non-jealous, agnostic, non tobacco product user, who enjoy hugging, holding hands, open mouth kissing n touching and is, in and about the same physically shape and hight as me.
I was just thinking about that word, "Romantic" and I have to say, that is not me!
I realize that IF your a hopeless romantic or wants a man to wait on you, we are both looking for someone that is elusive. The only difference is, men will tell you what you want to hear, just to have sex with you.
I am just a human being that treats you as one and expects the same in return; an equal.
If you want a knight in shinning armor, flowers on Valentine's Day, your birthday or etc., I’m NOT that person. Just block me.
The government or organized religion has no right to tell me what to do on a certain day. I’m not a sheep being let to the slaughter. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. That is how I have lived my life, and will do so until I die.
Imagine if I was a romantic, I would be a womanizer telling you lies?
Since I’m a widow, and my lover and I the lasted 30 years, what does that say? Either she was a fool, or realized what a complimentary asset I was w/o being a silly romantic who had to buy her love with gifts.
I also don’t deal well, with high maintenance women either. “Treat a lady like a lady.” I have two legs, and two arms, and i am not crippled, I can get up and get what I want. You're not my women servant; nor am I your man servant!
As a friend, you will have to pay your own way. I’m not rich, and I can’t afford to pay a woman to be my friend. I’m giver, but I will not be taken. Ask me for a date and I will pay my own way. Will you?
I'm presently nursing arthritis in my left hip. Walking and water exercises has helped.
I have all the material things I can ask for, and I like to have someone by my side; holding hands. NOT in front or behind me, next to me!
FYI: i'm not a team player, i question authority, and i live life on my terms.
i have decided to move to the Hot Springs, AR area in the next year. Time for a change and maybe meet someone special. Is that you?
Being a type 2 diabetic, I am looking past sex; I desire a partner who I can enjoy all other aspects of traveling.
So, If this turns you off, sorry. Better to be advised now, rather than you invest into someone who you think, you can change, and can’t.
I am just a widowed New Yorker moving to AR.
I don't care about your past. I want to know your future plans?
IF it don't include me, than please don't type to me and waste out time.
Type now/meet later.
a traveler, legal name
Znak
Lew
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Klika Dodatkowych Kilogramów
Mój wzrost
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Moje Oczy Są
Piwny
Moje pochodzenie
kaukaskie
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Wdowa/Wdowiec
Mam Dzieci
Nie
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Włosy
Budowa Ciała
Nawet Bym o Tym Nie Rozmawiał
Moje Włosy Są
Jasny Brąz
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Nie mam zwierząt domowych
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Nie
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Licencjackich
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Na Emeryturze
Moja Specjalność To
Na Emeryturze
Mój Tytuł Zawodowy To
not important
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
od $15,000USD do $29,999USD
Mieszkam
Sam/Sama
W Domu
Nie Ma Hałasu
Jestem Palaczem
Nie
Piję Alkohol
Tak - Towarzysko
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Przeciętny Kowalski
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Zdystansowany, Nieśmiały, Przyjacielski, Flirciarz
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Fotografia, TV, Internet, Gry, Podróże, Samochody, Gra w Karty, Kamping
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Przebywanie w Domu, Próbowanie Nowych Rzeczy, Relaks, Spanie, TV, Wyjście Do Muzeum
Idealna Pierwsza Randka To
Meeting for breakfast, talking, taking a short stroll, (arthritis in left hip, getting more-better with water exercises and soon walking at the Y).IF we clicked and we should, lets make it a day, and go to a noon movie, afterwards a light lunch, and then to your place: if you'll have me. we can stop off get some wine, cheese, and chicken, and do a dvd, cards and conservation, or lots of kissing.
Zawsze Chciałem Spróbować
I have no bucket list. IF I should die today, I have no regrets nor desires to return to this planet.
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Kłopotliwy, Nie Mam Przyjaciół
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Agnostyk
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Nigdy
Mój Cel Życiowy To
to continue to live life my way, and then die.
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Przyjacielski
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Wiadomości, Dramaty, Filmy
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Akcji, Komediowe
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Rock, Jazz
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Nie Lubię Czytać
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
a mix of traveling and photography. Just driving down 2 lane roads, topless, stopping and taking pictures.
I like board games, cards, watching TV, movies, driving topless (and NO you can not drive my car) shifting the gears, and just what you may like in life; after all we all are basically the same; humans.
i just miss someone to be with. aka i hate being a lone. Interested? lets communicate and see where it goes.
I like board games, cards, watching TV, movies, driving topless (and NO you can not drive my car) shifting the gears, and just what you may like in life; after all we all are basically the same; humans.
i just miss someone to be with. aka i hate being a lone. Interested? lets communicate and see where it goes.
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Dowcipny, Flirciarz, Wrażliwość, Empatia, Doskonałe Umiejętności, Poczucie Humoru, Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Troskliwość, Inteligencja
Czego Szukasz?
Someone who is independent in all areas. Again, good communication skills and articulating is a must. I can't read your mind.
im a giver and like a giver as well. Sorry, no takers.
As for relationship, just friends for starters. IF it works; great! Lets move foward. At my age, life is short and you can never have too many friends although the goal is one lover. Interested? let me know and together we can start the friendship.
im a giver and like a giver as well. Sorry, no takers.
As for relationship, just friends for starters. IF it works; great! Lets move foward. At my age, life is short and you can never have too many friends although the goal is one lover. Interested? let me know and together we can start the friendship.
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Internetowy Znajomy, Przyjaciel, Randka, Oddany, Seks Oralny