widowed: looking for friends
Curiously1951
Hot Springs, Arkansas | Férfi keres TS/TV/TG
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Angol
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My lover of 30 years, recently died, and here I am ready to start taking life to the next level: A serious, committed, relationship.
So, IF your in no rush and willing to build a solid friendship foundation, lets talk at length first, before we consider any other options.
As I get further and further past my lovers death, I become more refined in what and who I am; as well as the woman I want to be with me, until death do us part. So, I have to get this out now, before you go thinking I am someone, I am not.
Please understand I was born and raised a New Yorker, first and foremost; which means I have an East Coast Mentality, which is very different from here, in Indiana. (aka I have a tendency to move quickly. LOL!So IF your not ready, don't waste my time by writing to me.)
I'm ONLY looking for an uncommon woman, who possess: assertiveness, self-confidence, independent, is emotionally and financially secure, non-clingy & non-jealous, agnostic, non tobacco product user, who enjoy hugging, holding hands, open mouth kissing n touching and is, in and about the same physically shape and hight as me.
I was just thinking about that word, "Romantic" and I have to say, that is not me!
I realize that IF your a hopeless romantic or wants a man to wait on you, we are both looking for someone that is elusive. The only difference is, men will tell you what you want to hear, just to have sex with you.
I am just a human being that treats you as one and expects the same in return; an equal.
If you want a knight in shinning armor, flowers on Valentine's Day, your birthday or etc., I’m NOT that person. Just block me.
The government or organized religion has no right to tell me what to do on a certain day. I’m not a sheep being let to the slaughter. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. That is how I have lived my life, and will do so until I die.
Imagine if I was a romantic, I would be a womanizer telling you lies?
Since I’m a widow, and my lover and I the lasted 30 years, what does that say? Either she was a fool, or realized what a complimentary asset I was w/o being a silly romantic who had to buy her love with gifts.
I also don’t deal well, with high maintenance women either. “Treat a lady like a lady.” I have two legs, and two arms, and i am not crippled, I can get up and get what I want. You're not my women servant; nor am I your man servant!
As a friend, you will have to pay your own way. I’m not rich, and I can’t afford to pay a woman to be my friend. I’m giver, but I will not be taken. Ask me for a date and I will pay my own way. Will you?
I'm presently nursing arthritis in my left hip. Walking and water exercises has helped.
I have all the material things I can ask for, and I like to have someone by my side; holding hands. NOT in front or behind me, next to me!
FYI: i'm not a team player, i question authority, and i live life on my terms.
i have decided to move to the Hot Springs, AR area in the next year. Time for a change and maybe meet someone special. Is that you?
Being a type 2 diabetic, I am looking past sex; I desire a partner who I can enjoy all other aspects of traveling.
So, If this turns you off, sorry. Better to be advised now, rather than you invest into someone who you think, you can change, and can’t.
I am just a widowed New Yorker moving to AR.
I don't care about your past. I want to know your future plans?
IF it don't include me, than please don't type to me and waste out time.
Type now/meet later.
a traveler, legal name
So, IF your in no rush and willing to build a solid friendship foundation, lets talk at length first, before we consider any other options.
As I get further and further past my lovers death, I become more refined in what and who I am; as well as the woman I want to be with me, until death do us part. So, I have to get this out now, before you go thinking I am someone, I am not.
Please understand I was born and raised a New Yorker, first and foremost; which means I have an East Coast Mentality, which is very different from here, in Indiana. (aka I have a tendency to move quickly. LOL!So IF your not ready, don't waste my time by writing to me.)
I'm ONLY looking for an uncommon woman, who possess: assertiveness, self-confidence, independent, is emotionally and financially secure, non-clingy & non-jealous, agnostic, non tobacco product user, who enjoy hugging, holding hands, open mouth kissing n touching and is, in and about the same physically shape and hight as me.
I was just thinking about that word, "Romantic" and I have to say, that is not me!
I realize that IF your a hopeless romantic or wants a man to wait on you, we are both looking for someone that is elusive. The only difference is, men will tell you what you want to hear, just to have sex with you.
I am just a human being that treats you as one and expects the same in return; an equal.
If you want a knight in shinning armor, flowers on Valentine's Day, your birthday or etc., I’m NOT that person. Just block me.
The government or organized religion has no right to tell me what to do on a certain day. I’m not a sheep being let to the slaughter. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. That is how I have lived my life, and will do so until I die.
Imagine if I was a romantic, I would be a womanizer telling you lies?
Since I’m a widow, and my lover and I the lasted 30 years, what does that say? Either she was a fool, or realized what a complimentary asset I was w/o being a silly romantic who had to buy her love with gifts.
I also don’t deal well, with high maintenance women either. “Treat a lady like a lady.” I have two legs, and two arms, and i am not crippled, I can get up and get what I want. You're not my women servant; nor am I your man servant!
As a friend, you will have to pay your own way. I’m not rich, and I can’t afford to pay a woman to be my friend. I’m giver, but I will not be taken. Ask me for a date and I will pay my own way. Will you?
I'm presently nursing arthritis in my left hip. Walking and water exercises has helped.
I have all the material things I can ask for, and I like to have someone by my side; holding hands. NOT in front or behind me, next to me!
FYI: i'm not a team player, i question authority, and i live life on my terms.
i have decided to move to the Hot Springs, AR area in the next year. Time for a change and maybe meet someone special. Is that you?
Being a type 2 diabetic, I am looking past sex; I desire a partner who I can enjoy all other aspects of traveling.
So, If this turns you off, sorry. Better to be advised now, rather than you invest into someone who you think, you can change, and can’t.
I am just a widowed New Yorker moving to AR.
I don't care about your past. I want to know your future plans?
IF it don't include me, than please don't type to me and waste out time.
Type now/meet later.
a traveler, legal name
Jelentkezzen
Oroszlán
Megjelenés és helyzete
Testalkatom
Egy kis felesleg
Magasságom
1.8 m
Szemeim színe
Mogyoróbarna
Etnicitásom
Kaukázusi
Családi állapotom
Özvegy
Vannak gyerekeim
Nem
Szeretnék gyerekeket
Nem
Az amire büszke vagyok:
Haj
Testművészet
Nem is gondolkodom ilyenen
Hajam színe:
Világosbarna
Háziállatjaim
Nincs háziállat
Költözködés?
Nem
Állapot
Képzettségem
Főiskolai végzettség
Foglalkoztatásom
Nyugdíjas
Specialitásom
Nyugdíjas
Munkaköröm
not important
Ez évi bevételem
3,656,479 - 7,312,715 HUF
Lakáshelyzet
Egyedül
Otthon
Nincs zaj
Dohányzom
Nem
Kedvelem az alkoholt
Igen - társaságban
Személyiség
A középiskolában
Átlagos Pista
Szociális magatartásom:
Tartózkodó, Szégyenlős, Barátságos, Kacér
Hobbijaim:
Fotográfia, Televizió, Internet, Játékok, Utazás, Gépkocsik, Kártyázás, Kempingezés
Tökéletes szórakozás?
Otthon tartózkodás, Új dolgok kipróbálása, Lazítás, Alvás, Televizió, Múzeum
A tökéletes első randi így néz ki számomra:
Meeting for breakfast, talking, taking a short stroll, (arthritis in left hip, getting more-better with water exercises and soon walking at the Y).IF we clicked and we should, lets make it a day, and go to a noon movie, afterwards a light lunch, and then to your place: if you'll have me. we can stop off get some wine, cheese, and chicken, and do a dvd, cards and conservation, or lots of kissing.
Mindig kipróbáltam volna a(z)
I have no bucket list. IF I should die today, I have no regrets nor desires to return to this planet.
Így látnak barátaim:
Bajkeverő, Nincsenek barátaim
Nézetek
Vallási nézeteim:
Agnosztikus
Részt veszek a vallási szertartásokon:
Soha
Életcélom:
to continue to live life my way, and then die.
Humorérzékem:
Barátságos
Ízlés
Mit nézek?
Hírek, Dráma, Filmek
Mit nézek a moziban?
Akció, Komédia
Amikor zenét hallgatok, mindig meghallgatom a
Rock, Jazz
Mit olvasok?
Nem szeretek olvasni
Mit jelent a szórakozás a részemre:
a mix of traveling and photography. Just driving down 2 lane roads, topless, stopping and taking pictures.
I like board games, cards, watching TV, movies, driving topless (and NO you can not drive my car) shifting the gears, and just what you may like in life; after all we all are basically the same; humans.
i just miss someone to be with. aka i hate being a lone. Interested? lets communicate and see where it goes.
I like board games, cards, watching TV, movies, driving topless (and NO you can not drive my car) shifting the gears, and just what you may like in life; after all we all are basically the same; humans.
i just miss someone to be with. aka i hate being a lone. Interested? lets communicate and see where it goes.
keres
Mit tart vonzónak?
Szellemesség, Flörtölős, Érzékenység, Empátia, Ügyesség, Humor, Jó kinézet, Komolyság, Tudás
Mi az ami után kutat?
Someone who is independent in all areas. Again, good communication skills and articulating is a must. I can't read your mind.
im a giver and like a giver as well. Sorry, no takers.
As for relationship, just friends for starters. IF it works; great! Lets move foward. At my age, life is short and you can never have too many friends although the goal is one lover. Interested? let me know and together we can start the friendship.
im a giver and like a giver as well. Sorry, no takers.
As for relationship, just friends for starters. IF it works; great! Lets move foward. At my age, life is short and you can never have too many friends although the goal is one lover. Interested? let me know and together we can start the friendship.
Mi után kutat?
Internet társ, Barát, Dátum, Elkötelezettség, Orális szex