beginning from scratch . . .
estyle2009
North Bergen, New Jersey | Man Seeking A TS/TV/TG
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
i am a man who at forty seeks a mutually supportive, equitable, emotionally mature & yes i am going to use the following words : loving :
long term : committed : relationship
i am a man at forty who wants to grow with someone - who are you ??
long term : committed : relationship
i am a man at forty who wants to grow with someone - who are you ??
Sign
Capricorn
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Other
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Lips
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is
lighting designer / programmer
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Photography, Theater, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
simple - day length adventure outdoors: beaching,
biking, hiking, walking, talking, exploring
the surroundings & navigating the beginning(s)
biking, hiking, walking, talking, exploring
the surroundings & navigating the beginning(s)
I've Always Wanted To Try
sailing & horeback riding
i'm from brooklyn originally & have always wanted to do both . . .
i'm from brooklyn originally & have always wanted to do both . . .
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Obscure, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
i read this somewhere on the internet & i remembered it. be forewarned it's cheesy : "to live an ordinary life extraordinarily"
that's my goal - seriously.
that's my goal - seriously.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Dramas
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rap, Electronic, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Anthology, Biography, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Horror, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
depends on season & mood . . . i've so many different concepts of fun it is hard to have one idea - i guess if i had to narrow it down i would say, "expanding" . . .
i find it fun to expand my knowledge of the world if that's breakfast length t-shirts, the newspaper, the view & a cup of coffee then that's what it is . . . if it's horseback riding on the beaches of madrid that works too as long as it expands my knowledge of the world.
i'll antique shop in maine on a lazy saturday afternoon - that's fun to me. yeah - that would be nice.
i find it fun to expand my knowledge of the world if that's breakfast length t-shirts, the newspaper, the view & a cup of coffee then that's what it is . . . if it's horseback riding on the beaches of madrid that works too as long as it expands my knowledge of the world.
i'll antique shop in maine on a lazy saturday afternoon - that's fun to me. yeah - that would be nice.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
intelligence primarily
ability to enjoy both a good conversation & ensuing silence(s) a plus
humor is also a requisite mostly because i lack wit that is not to say i'm not funny i'm just not quick (which is a benefit in other areas)
plus i don't talk much - i'm not shy (really, i'm not) i just don't have much to say
probably why i'm such a big fan of kim ki duk movies . . .
i guess another ingredient would be openness if that's even a word (i think it is) maybe willingness is better maybe patience . . .
i'm not indecisive just doing something new & therefore fumbling with words
feel like i'm babbling - so, i'm gonna stop.
ability to enjoy both a good conversation & ensuing silence(s) a plus
humor is also a requisite mostly because i lack wit that is not to say i'm not funny i'm just not quick (which is a benefit in other areas)
plus i don't talk much - i'm not shy (really, i'm not) i just don't have much to say
probably why i'm such a big fan of kim ki duk movies . . .
i guess another ingredient would be openness if that's even a word (i think it is) maybe willingness is better maybe patience . . .
i'm not indecisive just doing something new & therefore fumbling with words
feel like i'm babbling - so, i'm gonna stop.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date