Looking for a decent person

I Can Speak

English, Other

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm looking for a relationship, not a hook-up. Your gender doesn't matter much to me. I wish this site (and just about every other site out there) allowed for more than one choice, or at least an "all of the above" option. I'm interested in guys and girls, trans or otherwise.

Dating guys is new to me, but I'm finding myself unexpectedly drawn towards the idea lately... Dating women is much more familiar.

I'm a post-op transwoman who's comfortable with herself, laid back and easy going. I'm not ashamed of the male side of my personality -- I love action movies, video games and sci-fi. I find it blends well with my female side, and I'm happy with the mix.

I've been working in the tech field since graduating from college. I definitely have a bit of geek in me.

I'm very liberal. I was even before I spent 10 years living in San Francisco, where I worked in Silicon Valley and volunteered within the queer community.

If your profile says you're looking for a ''she-male'' or a ''tranny'' -- DON'T bother. I'm certainly not the kind of girl you're looking for. Language matters, respect matters.

Singles (and possibly poly couples) only, please. I have no interest in being the other woman. If you can't respect your partner, why would I ever think you could respect me?

Sign

Aquarius

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Travel, Cooking, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A couple drinks and maybe dinner in a place that's not too loud. Good, easy conversation. A fair bit of laughter and a promise of a second date.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Agnostic

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, History, Political, Science Fiction

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Straight/Bi/Pan identified bio guy or trans guy.

Genderqueer, bio girl, trans girl, whatever.

Poly couple, maybe...

Married -- No.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date