Where oh where is my kinky counterpart?

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I've been married since 08/13/2006 and I'm dad to three boys and a girl. I have seven children altogether, five biological and two step-children. They consist of my son that lives with his mother in Oklahoma, my daughter that lives with her mother in Oregon, my son that lives with his mother in Iowa, my daughter, my son and two step-sons that live with myself and their mother.

I often get asked, "You're married but you're here talking to others, does your wife know?" The answer is YES, SHE DOES. After 3 years of marriage, some thought and discussion my wife and I agreed to practice an open marriage allowing us to freely meet and interact with others. A big factor in our decision was our differing interests, both in and out of the bedroom. This does NOT mean that we're automatically interested in anything sexual with the people we make contact with. We prefer to wait and get to know you first, see if we have anything in common, anything we could build upon. Like the old sayings go, "friends first, lovers later" and "seduce my mind and you can have my body".

I have been heavily influenced by women throughout my life which sparked an interest in BDSM and Female led relationships. I am also a hetero-flexible cross dresser who is continuously wrestling with my own issues as I try to better understand myself. Unfortunately, I have not been as active with our local BDSM or GLBT communities as I would like to be due to my hectic family life. I would love to meet real, local people that share my same interests and could help me get more active within those communities.

When I dress I go by the name Jaime Laine, aggressively outgoing, outspoken and usually the life of the party. Pretty much a complete contrast to her alter ego. I am by no means a professional drag queen or performer although, I wouldn't mind learning to perform. This is and always has been pretty much a hobby or pastime of mine since an early age and I found that it brings something out in me that is difficult to describe. I could try and use all the "reasons" and excuses that I've heard from so many others in the past but the most honest statement I can make is that I feel an unbridled freedom when dressed and I absolutely love the reactions of others.

I never really know what to say about myself on these things so, If you truly want to know about me then message me or catch up to me on chat and get to know me through our conversations.

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 2 (1.88 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Hispanic/latino, Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Married

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Legs

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

High School Diploma

My Current Employment Status Is

Homemaker

My Speciality Is

Other

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Movies, I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Philosophy, Reference, Religious

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Doesnt Matter, Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Group Sex, Just Wanna Fuck, Other