Future girl seeks friends and lovers
nikkio503
Durham, Oregon | Transsexuel/Travesti/Transgenre Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
My name is Sarah-Nikol, or Nikki and I am a trans-woman. What does that mean? It means that when I was in my mother’s tummy, my body decided to become a boy later in the growth cycle than normal, and my brain partly formed imprinted as female. It also means that I got to spend most of my life working hard at being a boy, and getting bullied when I failed.
So today, I am an amalgamation of the male and female genders. I have not started hormones yet due to family obligations, and societal pressure, so am still completely male physically. I have rather androgynous features and voice (naturally) and my body is a masculine athletic build. I am not a skinny little girl! I am taller than many of you men. I have a broad chest, and I’m overweight, though losing, with most of it in my neck and torso. My hair is brown-black and past my shoulders and rather curly, if a bit frizzy. I have hazel green eyes which have been described as one of my best features. I wear glasses most of the time, and I chose girly cute ones.
I tend to dress in skinny or skintight jeans, short shorts and skirts that show off my shapely legs. I wear mostly fitted and stylish women’s t-shirts, and I like high heel ankle boots. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry, mostly conservative necklaces and earrings. I prefer angel wings and butterflies in the designs, and much of my clothing reflects this.
Now one of the first questions asked is usually, “are you passable”. My response is often, “If it matters, than you are not what I am looking for”. Most trans-women do NOT look like what you see in the movies. Most of us are broke and can’t afford all the plastic surgery those girls have had. People tell me that I am very pretty. I get hit on a lot. But I look more androgynous than female. And again, I am NOT a skinny little girl. People often cannot tell for sure whether I am male or female without looking more closely. My friends tell me that my own insecurity is my biggest giveaway. I am working on that.
I am now, recently, living as a woman more often than not. At home, I am rarely in men’s clothes…In fact I don’t have much of them anymore. I am starting to do most of my going out in public as a woman. I hope to be able to start my physical transition soon, but for now, I am working on the inside. (mannerisms and such).
So today, I am an amalgamation of the male and female genders. I have not started hormones yet due to family obligations, and societal pressure, so am still completely male physically. I have rather androgynous features and voice (naturally) and my body is a masculine athletic build. I am not a skinny little girl! I am taller than many of you men. I have a broad chest, and I’m overweight, though losing, with most of it in my neck and torso. My hair is brown-black and past my shoulders and rather curly, if a bit frizzy. I have hazel green eyes which have been described as one of my best features. I wear glasses most of the time, and I chose girly cute ones.
I tend to dress in skinny or skintight jeans, short shorts and skirts that show off my shapely legs. I wear mostly fitted and stylish women’s t-shirts, and I like high heel ankle boots. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry, mostly conservative necklaces and earrings. I prefer angel wings and butterflies in the designs, and much of my clothing reflects this.
Now one of the first questions asked is usually, “are you passable”. My response is often, “If it matters, than you are not what I am looking for”. Most trans-women do NOT look like what you see in the movies. Most of us are broke and can’t afford all the plastic surgery those girls have had. People tell me that I am very pretty. I get hit on a lot. But I look more androgynous than female. And again, I am NOT a skinny little girl. People often cannot tell for sure whether I am male or female without looking more closely. My friends tell me that my own insecurity is my biggest giveaway. I am working on that.
I am now, recently, living as a woman more often than not. At home, I am rarely in men’s clothes…In fact I don’t have much of them anymore. I am starting to do most of my going out in public as a woman. I hope to be able to start my physical transition soon, but for now, I am working on the inside. (mannerisms and such).
Signe
Vierge
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Avec des formes
Ma taille est
6' 2 (1.88 m)
Mes yeux sont
Noisettes
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Célibataire
J'ai des enfants
Oui - chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Pas sûr/e
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Jambes
Art Corporel
Oreilles percées
Mes cheveux sont
Noirs
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes secondaires incomplètes
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Etudiant/e
Mon domaine de compétence est
Administratif / Gestion
J'ai gagné cette année
De 15,000 € à 29,999 €
Je vis
Seul/e, Avec mes enfants
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Calme
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé, Timide, Observateur, Sympa, Comique, Séducteur
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Télévision, Films, Internet, Jeux, Fêtes, Danse, Dîner , Théâtre, Cuisine, Camper, Pêche / Chasse, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Faire la fête, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Sorties en boîte / tour des bars, Boire un coup, Se déguiser, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Télévision
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Obscur/e, Neuneu, Un amour
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon but dans la vie c'est
To find myself in a poly loving relationship wit a man and woman.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Obscur/e, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Dessins animés, Sitcoms, Programmes instructifs, Films, TV réalité
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Romantiques, Animation, Adultes
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Country, Rock, Electro, Pop, Indus, New age, Dance
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Fantaisie, Fictions, Science-fiction
Mon idée du fun
I spend much of my time doing things with my kids. We study Taekwondo together (I’m a blue belt), promote my business, watch TV and movies, play D&D and video games, and go to SCA events. Things I enjoy without them include movies and theater, dining out, dancing and parties. I am open to kinky adult type parties, but not on the first date.
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Audace, Spontanéité, Séduction
Que recherchez-vous?
I prefer clean-shaven men between 30 and 45 who do not smoke and are in reasonably good shape and not terribly hairy.
I like women up to my own age, an moderate shape.
I am a very tactile and sensual person, so I like men who like to touch me. I am usually not into kissing men, but with women, it’s a big thing for me, so I would love to find a man who could make me want to kiss. I tend to lean towards the submissive side, so like men who who can be assertive and in control, though respectful. On our date, I want YOU to be the man. I do not want to make decisions for us, or initiate first physical contact, first kiss, or sex. I do, however, have self-respect and will say no if I am not into what you want. Please note that if we do end up having sex, I do not top. I am looking to be treated as a woman, and this includes the bedroom.
I am very turned off by poor hygiene and odor. If you don’t bathe and brush you teeth, I wont be interested.
I like women up to my own age, an moderate shape.
I am a very tactile and sensual person, so I like men who like to touch me. I am usually not into kissing men, but with women, it’s a big thing for me, so I would love to find a man who could make me want to kiss. I tend to lean towards the submissive side, so like men who who can be assertive and in control, though respectful. On our date, I want YOU to be the man. I do not want to make decisions for us, or initiate first physical contact, first kiss, or sex. I do, however, have self-respect and will say no if I am not into what you want. Please note that if we do end up having sex, I do not top. I am looking to be treated as a woman, and this includes the bedroom.
I am very turned off by poor hygiene and odor. If you don’t bathe and brush you teeth, I wont be interested.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Peu importe, Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Sexe oral, Sexe anal, Domination, Bondage, Autre