Queer chubby guy seeks feminine person

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

Will update this in a bit with a better description of myself, where I'm coming from, who and what I'm looking for. In short, I'm open to whatever the great magnet may bring. Labels are limiting in many ways, but it's important to know who you're talking to and what I'm looking for. In simplist terms; I'm male in identity and expression, in shorthand I'm a chubby bear cub with a take charge approach in the bedroom. My strongest attraction is to femininity defined in our culture. I've had the best relationships with feminine people, however they identify and whatever genetics were handed to them. Not to pat myself on the back, but I'm quite self aware in many ways and have been on a long journey exploring what makes me tick - I'm quite comfortable after finding myself in my 20s. In everyday life I am open minded and appreciate the shades of gray that surrounds us all. I do the things I want in life, I've navigated some difficult times and don't get dragged down by BS. My Spidey-Sense works for evaluating people, I eschew sketchiness but embrace weird funkiness :) Have many hobbies, personal and professional pursuits and travels in my life. I'm engaged in the world around me and strive to live in the moment. Love Portland and would like to share places and things I love with someone special. If chance has it we chat a bit and we click, I'm open to what comes natural. Let's go out and do something fun and develop a connection. There's so much more to share, but that's what spending time with someone is for. Let's talk and see what happens.

Sterrenbeeld

Boogschutter

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Single

Ik Heb Kinderen

Nee

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Nee

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

MBO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Zelfstandig

Mijn specialisatie is

Politie

Mijn functie is:

Architect

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Ja - Maar zonder tabak

Ik Drink

Ja - Een Of Twee

Op de middelbare school was ik

Cool

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Drinken, Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Naar een casino gaan, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan, Feesten, Videospellen spelen, Een boek lezen, Relaxen, Slapen, Thuis blijven, Films, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen

Een perfecte eerste date is

Relaxed time and space to get each other's vibe, warm up to each other through conversation. There's tons of cool places for tea, coffee, beer, or cocktails. And/or jump into a fun activity like biking around Sauve Island, going to Trek in the Park and sharing in giggles, stumble around Powell's together, wander around vintage shops, or high fives and pub crawl :)

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Honestly, I've checked most things off the list. Those that remain are easy and just waiting for the timing like hike in backpack camping and seeing Tom Petty live. Others require more funds like getting a fixed wing and helicopter pilots license, doing more European travel (Scandinavia and eastern EU FTW), skydiving, and since seeing Jiro Dreams of Sushi - I want to goto his shop in Tokyo.

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn, Cool, Obscuur

Mijn Geloof Is

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

Do all types of ill .... :) And hopefully leave it a better place than I found it.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Obscuur

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Empathie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Intelligentie, Eigenaardigheden, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

Wat zoek je?

I've crushed on, dated, and romanced feminine people who plot themselves along the feminine end of the gender ID, gender expression, sexual, and romantic spectrum - we're all unique snowflakes after all :) In gender/sexuality jargon, I am looking for a femme person. Masculinity is a major turnoff for me. I've romantically bonded best with femme lesbian cisgendered women, transgendered women, cisgendered queer women, and the rare femme boy. Ardently straight people don't light my fire anymore. It's a blend of personal energy/vibe/wavelength, personality, and quite varied taste in looks. Basically, I can't pinpoint physical attributes that make or break the attraction, it's the combination of all the personal dimensions (mind, body, spirit, attitude, etc) that is unique for everyone.

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Vriend, Date, Iets Anders, Maakt niet uit