Queer chubby guy seeks feminine person

I Would Describe Myself As

Will update this in a bit with a better description of myself, where I'm coming from, who and what I'm looking for. In short, I'm open to whatever the great magnet may bring. Labels are limiting in many ways, but it's important to know who you're talking to and what I'm looking for. In simplist terms; I'm male in identity and expression, in shorthand I'm a chubby bear cub with a take charge approach in the bedroom. My strongest attraction is to femininity defined in our culture. I've had the best relationships with feminine people, however they identify and whatever genetics were handed to them. Not to pat myself on the back, but I'm quite self aware in many ways and have been on a long journey exploring what makes me tick - I'm quite comfortable after finding myself in my 20s. In everyday life I am open minded and appreciate the shades of gray that surrounds us all. I do the things I want in life, I've navigated some difficult times and don't get dragged down by BS. My Spidey-Sense works for evaluating people, I eschew sketchiness but embrace weird funkiness :) Have many hobbies, personal and professional pursuits and travels in my life. I'm engaged in the world around me and strive to live in the moment. Love Portland and would like to share places and things I love with someone special. If chance has it we chat a bit and we click, I'm open to what comes natural. Let's go out and do something fun and develop a connection. There's so much more to share, but that's what spending time with someone is for. Let's talk and see what happens.

Sign

Sagittarius

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Architect

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - But Non Tobacco

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Partying, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Relaxed time and space to get each other's vibe, warm up to each other through conversation. There's tons of cool places for tea, coffee, beer, or cocktails. And/or jump into a fun activity like biking around Sauve Island, going to Trek in the Park and sharing in giggles, stumble around Powell's together, wander around vintage shops, or high fives and pub crawl :)

I've Always Wanted To Try

Honestly, I've checked most things off the list. Those that remain are easy and just waiting for the timing like hike in backpack camping and seeing Tom Petty live. Others require more funds like getting a fixed wing and helicopter pilots license, doing more European travel (Scandinavia and eastern EU FTW), skydiving, and since seeing Jiro Dreams of Sushi - I want to goto his shop in Tokyo.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Obscure

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Do all types of ill .... :) And hopefully leave it a better place than I found it.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

I've crushed on, dated, and romanced feminine people who plot themselves along the feminine end of the gender ID, gender expression, sexual, and romantic spectrum - we're all unique snowflakes after all :) In gender/sexuality jargon, I am looking for a femme person. Masculinity is a major turnoff for me. I've romantically bonded best with femme lesbian cisgendered women, transgendered women, cisgendered queer women, and the rare femme boy. Ardently straight people don't light my fire anymore. It's a blend of personal energy/vibe/wavelength, personality, and quite varied taste in looks. Basically, I can't pinpoint physical attributes that make or break the attraction, it's the combination of all the personal dimensions (mind, body, spirit, attitude, etc) that is unique for everyone.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Other, Doesnt Matter