A New Girl In Town

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

It's taken me years to come to terms with who I am. For years I've had these feelings of femininity inside of me that I tried to ignore, but they never went away. A few years ago it was suggested by an acquaintance that I explore this and see where it went. This was difficult for me as I had no help or people close to me that I could really talk to.

I really began my transition about eight years ago to be honest. I started by losing weight through a change of eating habits and lots of walking. I guess the first signs of Candice came when I started wearing my hair down instead of tied back all the time. I used to do that to make other people happy.

For as long as I can remember, I preferred my hair long and my nails long, and I would throw a fit when my dad made me get my hair cut. I hated it. I consider myself more TS than TV at this point, though I know around here there are girls way more beautiful than I am. This isn't about looks or sex to me, it's about being happy. I care more about being presentable than passable, though I am working on that. If that's not good enough for some people, I really don't care. I just want to be happy.

I've never really been in a relationship. Women never seemed all that interested in me, so I didn't dwell on it. I don't think most women really want somebody like me. They want a man. But, if there is a woman out there, I'd love to talk. I made the mistake of brushing off a woman at another site because I was surprised she would want to be with me and she said some really nice things to me too. My shyness kicking in, I guess, but a lesson learned.

I'd be interested in meeting others like me too, though I can see where a lot of them are looking for men. I know they'll find the right one too. I know there are a lot of men looking for her too. I've experienced some of that myself as I've gotten more presentable. But most men only want one thing. I know it isn't all of them, but my experiences are I'm either ignored, called a fag by adolescent jerks or it's, "hey baby." I'm not really looking for a man, but we can still talk. I guess you never know.

It's not just about sex to me, and I don't have a lot of experience in that area. Married people are fine to talk to and be friends with, but I refuse to be a home wrecker. I understand the toll divorce can take on a whole family, and it's not a good thing.

Anyway, a little about myself. I am a writer, I like to get out and walk just about every day. I don't have a lot of friends to talk to, but I have a few. I could always have more though. I don't get out much, but I like to go to the city and the clubs once in a while, movies. Shopping is always fun, even if it's just window shopping. So, those are a few things.

Ladies, I know you're out there. Don't be shy. You joined here for a reason. There's nothing wrong with chatting. I will try to respond to any message as long as it's nice, so anybody can message me if they want to.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Hair

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some High School

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

Writer

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Loud, Observant, Reserved, Shy

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Family, Internet, Gardening, Movies, Music, Shopping, Sports, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies

An Ideal First Date Would Be

I think finding a place to have a good conversation would be a good first date. It may be as simple as taking a walk in the park and having a seat on a bench or the grass, going to get a bite to eat or getting a coffee. See if we make a connection, and if not, I'm still open to being friends. I think I'm a good listener. After that, whatever we want want to do, movies, the club, a show, a museum or you make the call. I'm pretty flexible.

I've Always Wanted To Try

There's probably quite a few things. I'd like to travel the world, but I'm not crazy about dealing with the TSA. I'd probably like to do the thing you've always wanted to try, Maybe you've been waiting for somebody to do it with you?

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Goal In Life Is

To transition as much I can and not let the things I can't afford to do stop me from trying to be the woman I am. To be the best person I can be and be there for friends and loved ones. To find the person I love, who loves me, and make it last and be fulfilling for both of us.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Soaps, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Dance, Metal, Pop, Rap, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Music, News, Satire, Science Fiction, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

Taking walks and getting out there, writing, browsing the internet, shopping, going to clubs or movies, spending time with my dad or my friends, good conversation, sharing fun experiences with friends and making new memories

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

I see there are a lot of interesting choices there, but I prefer to save the bottom selections for private conversation. I'm open to some of that, but what do you want? I think the important thing is that we're both happy. I don't know how many people actually do end up dating here, so if we just end up chatting, that's okay too. I think I am a good listener, so to you girls out there, if you need somebody to talk to, I'm willing to listen. I know how tough it can be for some girls out there.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date