Future girl seeks friends and lovers
nikkio503
Durham, Oregon | TS/TV/TG Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
My name is Sarah-Nikol, or Nikki and I am a trans-woman. What does that mean? It means that when I was in my mother’s tummy, my body decided to become a boy later in the growth cycle than normal, and my brain partly formed imprinted as female. It also means that I got to spend most of my life working hard at being a boy, and getting bullied when I failed.
So today, I am an amalgamation of the male and female genders. I have not started hormones yet due to family obligations, and societal pressure, so am still completely male physically. I have rather androgynous features and voice (naturally) and my body is a masculine athletic build. I am not a skinny little girl! I am taller than many of you men. I have a broad chest, and I’m overweight, though losing, with most of it in my neck and torso. My hair is brown-black and past my shoulders and rather curly, if a bit frizzy. I have hazel green eyes which have been described as one of my best features. I wear glasses most of the time, and I chose girly cute ones.
I tend to dress in skinny or skintight jeans, short shorts and skirts that show off my shapely legs. I wear mostly fitted and stylish women’s t-shirts, and I like high heel ankle boots. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry, mostly conservative necklaces and earrings. I prefer angel wings and butterflies in the designs, and much of my clothing reflects this.
Now one of the first questions asked is usually, “are you passable”. My response is often, “If it matters, than you are not what I am looking for”. Most trans-women do NOT look like what you see in the movies. Most of us are broke and can’t afford all the plastic surgery those girls have had. People tell me that I am very pretty. I get hit on a lot. But I look more androgynous than female. And again, I am NOT a skinny little girl. People often cannot tell for sure whether I am male or female without looking more closely. My friends tell me that my own insecurity is my biggest giveaway. I am working on that.
I am now, recently, living as a woman more often than not. At home, I am rarely in men’s clothes…In fact I don’t have much of them anymore. I am starting to do most of my going out in public as a woman. I hope to be able to start my physical transition soon, but for now, I am working on the inside. (mannerisms and such).
So today, I am an amalgamation of the male and female genders. I have not started hormones yet due to family obligations, and societal pressure, so am still completely male physically. I have rather androgynous features and voice (naturally) and my body is a masculine athletic build. I am not a skinny little girl! I am taller than many of you men. I have a broad chest, and I’m overweight, though losing, with most of it in my neck and torso. My hair is brown-black and past my shoulders and rather curly, if a bit frizzy. I have hazel green eyes which have been described as one of my best features. I wear glasses most of the time, and I chose girly cute ones.
I tend to dress in skinny or skintight jeans, short shorts and skirts that show off my shapely legs. I wear mostly fitted and stylish women’s t-shirts, and I like high heel ankle boots. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry, mostly conservative necklaces and earrings. I prefer angel wings and butterflies in the designs, and much of my clothing reflects this.
Now one of the first questions asked is usually, “are you passable”. My response is often, “If it matters, than you are not what I am looking for”. Most trans-women do NOT look like what you see in the movies. Most of us are broke and can’t afford all the plastic surgery those girls have had. People tell me that I am very pretty. I get hit on a lot. But I look more androgynous than female. And again, I am NOT a skinny little girl. People often cannot tell for sure whether I am male or female without looking more closely. My friends tell me that my own insecurity is my biggest giveaway. I am working on that.
I am now, recently, living as a woman more often than not. At home, I am rarely in men’s clothes…In fact I don’t have much of them anymore. I am starting to do most of my going out in public as a woman. I hope to be able to start my physical transition soon, but for now, I am working on the inside. (mannerisms and such).
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Curvy
My Height Is
6' 2 (1.88 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Legs
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is
Black
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Student
My Speciality Is
Administrative / Management
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
Alone, With Kid(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Theater, Cooking, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To find myself in a poly loving relationship wit a man and woman.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Animation, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Industrial, New age, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read
Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
I spend much of my time doing things with my kids. We study Taekwondo together (I’m a blue belt), promote my business, watch TV and movies, play D&D and video games, and go to SCA events. Things I enjoy without them include movies and theater, dining out, dancing and parties. I am open to kinky adult type parties, but not on the first date.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness
What Do You Look For?
I prefer clean-shaven men between 30 and 45 who do not smoke and are in reasonably good shape and not terribly hairy.
I like women up to my own age, an moderate shape.
I am a very tactile and sensual person, so I like men who like to touch me. I am usually not into kissing men, but with women, it’s a big thing for me, so I would love to find a man who could make me want to kiss. I tend to lean towards the submissive side, so like men who who can be assertive and in control, though respectful. On our date, I want YOU to be the man. I do not want to make decisions for us, or initiate first physical contact, first kiss, or sex. I do, however, have self-respect and will say no if I am not into what you want. Please note that if we do end up having sex, I do not top. I am looking to be treated as a woman, and this includes the bedroom.
I am very turned off by poor hygiene and odor. If you don’t bathe and brush you teeth, I wont be interested.
I like women up to my own age, an moderate shape.
I am a very tactile and sensual person, so I like men who like to touch me. I am usually not into kissing men, but with women, it’s a big thing for me, so I would love to find a man who could make me want to kiss. I tend to lean towards the submissive side, so like men who who can be assertive and in control, though respectful. On our date, I want YOU to be the man. I do not want to make decisions for us, or initiate first physical contact, first kiss, or sex. I do, however, have self-respect and will say no if I am not into what you want. Please note that if we do end up having sex, I do not top. I am looking to be treated as a woman, and this includes the bedroom.
I am very turned off by poor hygiene and odor. If you don’t bathe and brush you teeth, I wont be interested.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Doesnt Matter, Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Other