Queer chubby guy seeks feminine person

Jeg beskriver mig selv som

Will update this in a bit with a better description of myself, where I'm coming from, who and what I'm looking for. In short, I'm open to whatever the great magnet may bring. Labels are limiting in many ways, but it's important to know who you're talking to and what I'm looking for. In simplist terms; I'm male in identity and expression, in shorthand I'm a chubby bear cub with a take charge approach in the bedroom. My strongest attraction is to femininity defined in our culture. I've had the best relationships with feminine people, however they identify and whatever genetics were handed to them. Not to pat myself on the back, but I'm quite self aware in many ways and have been on a long journey exploring what makes me tick - I'm quite comfortable after finding myself in my 20s. In everyday life I am open minded and appreciate the shades of gray that surrounds us all. I do the things I want in life, I've navigated some difficult times and don't get dragged down by BS. My Spidey-Sense works for evaluating people, I eschew sketchiness but embrace weird funkiness :) Have many hobbies, personal and professional pursuits and travels in my life. I'm engaged in the world around me and strive to live in the moment. Love Portland and would like to share places and things I love with someone special. If chance has it we chat a bit and we click, I'm open to what comes natural. Let's go out and do something fun and develop a connection. There's so much more to share, but that's what spending time with someone is for. Let's talk and see what happens.

Underskriv

Skytten

Min højde er

178 cm

Min civilstand er

Single

Jeg har børn

Nej

Jeg vil have børn

Nej

Villig til at flytte

Nej

Mit uddannelsesniveau er

Lidt af universitetet

Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er

Selvstændig

Mit speciale er

Forskning / videnskab / ingeniørarbejde

Min jobtitel er

Architect

Jeg bor

Alene

Hjemme

Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem

Jeg er ryger

Ja - men ikke tobak

Jeg drikker

Ja - en eller to

I gymnasiet var jeg

Cool fyr

Min idé om at have det sjovt er

Drikke, Være sammen med venner, Shoppe, Gå på casino, Tage til koncert, Gå på museum, Feste, Spille computerspil, Læse en bog, Afslappende, Sove, Være hjemme, I biografen, Prøve noget nyt

En ideel første date ville være

Relaxed time and space to get each other's vibe, warm up to each other through conversation. There's tons of cool places for tea, coffee, beer, or cocktails. And/or jump into a fun activity like biking around Sauve Island, going to Trek in the Park and sharing in giggles, stumble around Powell's together, wander around vintage shops, or high fives and pub crawl :)

Jeg har altid villet prøve

Honestly, I've checked most things off the list. Those that remain are easy and just waiting for the timing like hike in backpack camping and seeing Tom Petty live. Others require more funds like getting a fixed wing and helicopter pilots license, doing more European travel (Scandinavia and eastern EU FTW), skydiving, and since seeing Jiro Dreams of Sushi - I want to goto his shop in Tokyo.

Mine venner beskriver mig som

Venlig, En andre gerne vil være, Cool, Obskur

Min religion er

Spirituel, men ikke religiøs

Mit mål i livet er

Do all types of ill .... :) And hopefully leave it a better place than I found it.

Min form for humor er

Banal, Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Obskur

Hvad finder du attraktivt?

Empati, Flot udseende, Humor, Intelligens, Særheder, Følsomhed, Omtanke, Morsom

Hvad leder du efter?

I've crushed on, dated, and romanced feminine people who plot themselves along the feminine end of the gender ID, gender expression, sexual, and romantic spectrum - we're all unique snowflakes after all :) In gender/sexuality jargon, I am looking for a femme person. Masculinity is a major turnoff for me. I've romantically bonded best with femme lesbian cisgendered women, transgendered women, cisgendered queer women, and the rare femme boy. Ardently straight people don't light my fire anymore. It's a blend of personal energy/vibe/wavelength, personality, and quite varied taste in looks. Basically, I can't pinpoint physical attributes that make or break the attraction, it's the combination of all the personal dimensions (mind, body, spirit, attitude, etc) that is unique for everyone.

Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?

Ven, Dato, Andet, Lige meget