Good and bad....in a good way

Hovořím

Angličtina, Japonština

Sebe bych popsal(a) jako

I grew up poor and under difficult conditions, but that has managed to make me a strong, empathetic, and determined person. I'm not rich or especially well off, but I'm comfortable and I do what I love in an academic setting. I spend a lot of time reading and writing for a profession, but I would have probably done those things anyway. We went to the library as children because there was only one black-and-white TV, which did not have cable. So, those things became a habit. I learned Japanese from marginalizing conditions, too. Poverty can, only very rarely and if you are very lucky, create room for positivity, I think. I'm well-educated, but most of the crucial things about life and living well I learned outside of classrooms; you don't have to be especially "well-educated," but I would probably ask you your opinion on a lot of things because I'm a curious person and I'm interested in other people's viewpoints.

I'm light-skinned, but I'm black. I grew up in a poor, rural, highly-segregated town, and we were all black then, so that will always be true for me. Pretty obviously, racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. attitudes and ways of life are a non-starter for me. Of course, we all have blind-spots when it comes to those things, but I'm quick to check someone and I expect others to do the same, out of respect and consideration.

While I have had a Trans partner before, I'm not necessarily looking for a serious and committed relationship. I'm happy to just have fun and see where things go. I'm not against serious relationships, but I don't take them lightly. I'm also happy to just make friends. I hear I have a somewhat unique sense of humor that not everyone gets. Like, I might point out a ridiculous choice that I made, not looking for consolation but pointing out how funny it was that I did that. Or, I might make an excruciatingly bad joke to see your reaction when I tell it. For me, the best reactions are those that laugh at the fact that I would do that. So, I don't take myself seriously all of the time, but I do take some things seriously, such as work, friends, and lovers. I got the work ethic from my father, who always worked at least fourteen hours a day. I got the love and friends from lovers and friends.

I don't get as much time to listen to it as I would like, but I draw a lot of inspiration, in work and life, from hip hop. I'm not a purist. I like lyrical and mumble rap. But, I can't help but shake the feeling that I have good taste in hip hop. Of course, I'm happy to get schooled on MCs that I'm sleeping on.

Overall, I'm a very calm person in life, but I'm not always relaxed in a given moment. I have been told for about as long as I remember that I have an "intense" way of looking at people, told enough times to believe it's true. But, I'm not scary, and I don't mean to look as intense as I apparently do. That's just the way I look at people. And, I suppose that some of my ways of looking at things, I mean, some of my beliefs are intense, too. Not evangelical-sort of intense, of course, but, for example, I am an atheist. That's kind of a mild example, but my beliefs are intense in that I take them seriously and they tend to be "radical." I have also changed a lot in my life. Like, a whole lot, so maybe my most serious belief is that I can be wrong. I really try to be open-minded.

Fundamentally, I expect to be treated well, so if you take your anger out on others, are spiteful, put others down to make yourself look or feel better, I honestly think that's wack. That said, I am very happy to meet new people, and I treat others well and with kindness. As the saying goes, some people think that's weakness, but it's not. It's experience, I believe. Feel free to reach out to me. I will message you back and be very happy to hear from you.

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Střelec

Má postava je

Normální

Má výška je

1,8 m

Barva mých očí

Hnědá

Můj původ je

Afroameričan/ka

Můj rodinný stav je

Singl

Mám děti

Ne

Chci děti

Nejsem si jist(a)

Mou nejlepší částí je

Oči

Barva mých vlasů

Holohlavý

Ochotný/ochotná se přestěhovat

Ne

Má úroveň vzdělání je

Vysokoškolské vzdělání

Můj současný stav zaměstnání je

Na plný úvazek

Mé zaměření je

Vzdělání / Humanitní

Žiji

Sám/sama

Doma

Přátelé občas přijdou

Jsem kuřák

Ne

Piji

Ano - ve společnosti

Mé společenské chování je

Rezervované, Hlasité, Přátelská osoba

Mé zájmy a koníčky jsou

Rodina, Rodina, Sportovní, Vzdělávání, Hudba, Filmy, Internet, Cestování, Dobrovolnictví

Má představa skvěle stráveného času je

Potloukat se s přáteli, Zůstat doma, Vyzkoušet nové věci, Filmy, Relax, Spát, Kluby / bary, Popíjet, Čtení knihy, Jít na koncert, Jít do muzea

Ideální první rande by bylo

We would have dinner, but the highlight of the meal would be the conversation. It could be funny. It could be thought-provoking. It could be heartfelt. But, it would be memorable. We go on a walk afterward in brisk weather that suddenly doesn't feel too cold at all. We go home together, or we don't.

Vždy jsem chtěl/a vyzkoušet

Bungie Jumping

Moji přátelé mě popisují jako

Přátelská osoba, Potížista, Potrhlý

Mé náboženství je

Ateista

Navštěvuji bohoslužby

Nikdy

Můj životní cíl je

To be happy and to make work and good memories with others that will both outlive me.

Můj smysl humoru je

Chytrý, Suchý / sarkastický, Přátelská osoba, Potrhlý, Prostopášná osoba

V TV vždy sleduji

Filmy

Když poslouchám hudbu, pak vždy poslouchám

Rap

Když čtu, tak nejraději čtu

Zprávy, Filozofické, Politické, Vědecké, Jsem autor(ka)

Má představa zábavy je

I climbed a mountain once. We were not properly prepared, and we were dirty, exhausted, and desperate on the way down. It started to rain. We laughed, which made a stranger laugh with us. A lot of things can be fun, if you have the right company and sense of humor.

Co považuješ za atraktivní?

Důvtip, Koketnost, Spontánnost, Troufalost, Citlivost, Empatii, Humor, Dobrý vzhled, Ohleduplnost, Inteligenci

Co hledáš?

Sincerity, kindness, and open-mindedness

Jaký typ vztahu hledáš?

Internetový kamarád(ka), Přítel, Partner na randění, Intimní, Odevzdaný/á, Na tom nezáleží, Orální sex, Anální sex