Good and bad....in a good way

Jeg taler

Engelsk, Japansk

Jeg beskriver mig selv som

I grew up poor and under difficult conditions, but that has managed to make me a strong, empathetic, and determined person. I'm not rich or especially well off, but I'm comfortable and I do what I love in an academic setting. I spend a lot of time reading and writing for a profession, but I would have probably done those things anyway. We went to the library as children because there was only one black-and-white TV, which did not have cable. So, those things became a habit. I learned Japanese from marginalizing conditions, too. Poverty can, only very rarely and if you are very lucky, create room for positivity, I think. I'm well-educated, but most of the crucial things about life and living well I learned outside of classrooms; you don't have to be especially "well-educated," but I would probably ask you your opinion on a lot of things because I'm a curious person and I'm interested in other people's viewpoints.

I'm light-skinned, but I'm black. I grew up in a poor, rural, highly-segregated town, and we were all black then, so that will always be true for me. Pretty obviously, racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. attitudes and ways of life are a non-starter for me. Of course, we all have blind-spots when it comes to those things, but I'm quick to check someone and I expect others to do the same, out of respect and consideration.

While I have had a Trans partner before, I'm not necessarily looking for a serious and committed relationship. I'm happy to just have fun and see where things go. I'm not against serious relationships, but I don't take them lightly. I'm also happy to just make friends. I hear I have a somewhat unique sense of humor that not everyone gets. Like, I might point out a ridiculous choice that I made, not looking for consolation but pointing out how funny it was that I did that. Or, I might make an excruciatingly bad joke to see your reaction when I tell it. For me, the best reactions are those that laugh at the fact that I would do that. So, I don't take myself seriously all of the time, but I do take some things seriously, such as work, friends, and lovers. I got the work ethic from my father, who always worked at least fourteen hours a day. I got the love and friends from lovers and friends.

I don't get as much time to listen to it as I would like, but I draw a lot of inspiration, in work and life, from hip hop. I'm not a purist. I like lyrical and mumble rap. But, I can't help but shake the feeling that I have good taste in hip hop. Of course, I'm happy to get schooled on MCs that I'm sleeping on.

Overall, I'm a very calm person in life, but I'm not always relaxed in a given moment. I have been told for about as long as I remember that I have an "intense" way of looking at people, told enough times to believe it's true. But, I'm not scary, and I don't mean to look as intense as I apparently do. That's just the way I look at people. And, I suppose that some of my ways of looking at things, I mean, some of my beliefs are intense, too. Not evangelical-sort of intense, of course, but, for example, I am an atheist. That's kind of a mild example, but my beliefs are intense in that I take them seriously and they tend to be "radical." I have also changed a lot in my life. Like, a whole lot, so maybe my most serious belief is that I can be wrong. I really try to be open-minded.

Fundamentally, I expect to be treated well, so if you take your anger out on others, are spiteful, put others down to make yourself look or feel better, I honestly think that's wack. That said, I am very happy to meet new people, and I treat others well and with kindness. As the saying goes, some people think that's weakness, but it's not. It's experience, I believe. Feel free to reach out to me. I will message you back and be very happy to hear from you.

Underskriv

Skytten

Min kropstype er

Gennemsnitlig

Min højde er

180 cm

Mine øjne er

Brun

Min etnicitet er

Afroamerikansk

Min civilstand er

Single

Jeg har børn

Nej

Jeg vil have børn

Ikke sikker

Mit bedste karaktertræk er

Øjne

Mit hår er

Skaldet

Villig til at flytte

Nej

Mit uddannelsesniveau er

Universitetsgrad

Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er

Fuldtid

Mit speciale er

Uddannelse / akademisk

Jeg bor

Alene

Hjemme

Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem

Jeg er ryger

Nej

Jeg drikker

Ja - til fester

Min sociale opførsel er

Reserveret, Højtråbende, Venlig

Mine interesser og hobbier er

Familie, Læsning, Sport, Læring, Musik, Film, Internet, Rejser, Frivilligt

Min idé om at have det sjovt er

Være sammen med venner, Være hjemme, Prøve noget nyt, I biografen, Afslappende, Sove, Diskotek / barer, Drikke, Læse en bog, Tage til koncert, Gå på museum

En ideel første date ville være

We would have dinner, but the highlight of the meal would be the conversation. It could be funny. It could be thought-provoking. It could be heartfelt. But, it would be memorable. We go on a walk afterward in brisk weather that suddenly doesn't feel too cold at all. We go home together, or we don't.

Jeg har altid villet prøve

Bungie Jumping

Mine venner beskriver mig som

Venlig, Ballademager, Fjollet

Min religion er

Ateist

Jeg deltager i tjenester

Aldrig

Mit mål i livet er

To be happy and to make work and good memories with others that will both outlive me.

Min form for humor er

Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet, Fræk

I tv ser jeg altid

Film

Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til

Rap

Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid

Nyheder, Filosofi, Politisk, Videnskab, Jeg er forfatter

Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er

I climbed a mountain once. We were not properly prepared, and we were dirty, exhausted, and desperate on the way down. It started to rain. We laughed, which made a stranger laugh with us. A lot of things can be fun, if you have the right company and sense of humor.

Hvad finder du attraktivt?

Morsom, Flirtende, Spontanitet, Skaldethed, Følsomhed, Empati, Humor, Flot udseende, Omtanke, Intelligens

Hvad leder du efter?

Sincerity, kindness, and open-mindedness

Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?

Internetven, Ven, Dato, Intim, Forpligtet, Lige meget, Oralsex, Analsex