a lifetime of waiting...
ocean1195
Boston, Massachusetts | Mężczyzna Szukam TS/TV/TG
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Widzę siebie jako osobę
I started here looking for some extraordinary sex. I have opened up (albeit ...a bit late) But...bottom-line NOT looking for a relationship. Just wanting to fuck
Then – I started communicating with a few women. The communications were not sexual. (Some of the initial contacts were very sexual – but they were looking for generous men. That was more of what I was expecting.)
However – the more I spoke with a couple of women here, the more admiration I began to have for each of them. I am still not clear that I have the kind of courage it takes to create a full transformation. And I am not talking sexual – I am talking about living into a vision of yourself. It became clear how extraordinary it was for, at least one of these new friendships, she is a person who had this immense courage to live into massive and complete vision/transformation. I began to admire the courage, and in many ways envy that commitment. I have taken many brave steps in my life – but none so completely. In both of these new friends it is a spiritually based transformation.
As a result, I find myself opening up in ways I did not expect to happen.
This whole experience has turned head my around. I am very clear that I could be very happy with the right woman. This ‘non-traditional’ male –female relationship was not on my radar, nor thinkable in the past. I was unaware of the attraction which is now very alive. So... I am interested in finding a friend/mate. who is more interested in how she will be treated, respected, loved – than how old I am …damn I am 60. This was not in my playbook. But…on the other hand…at 60, I intend to live more by what I know I want than what will work in the view of others.
As to what I'm looking for – I love the tender, more feminine qualities in a woman. Women, some women have this ability to welcome a man in… In the past I have been made to feel more whole by this accepting, loving and often nurturing qualities in a partner (woman). I have seen this very clearly and profoundly in at least one remarkable woman on this site. I am a very open, passionate man...I am told I am kind, generous, funny ...AND… I can also be very intense.
I like to explore myself and others, spiritually and emotionally. I like art, nature, dogs, meditation and prayer, beaches, warm climates – Brazil, Costa Rica, St. John. I like National Public Radio, Gershwin, Stanley Turrentine, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Nickelback, Stones, Spinners, everything but Heavy Metal and Rap…etc. like to dance, ballroom in particular (though I am not very good at it – I have not had the right partner).
Through some very challenging times – I believe I have learned how to be an authentic friend, a lover and a support person. I have always been single. Never married no kids. And that is because I didn't really know how to be a friend in the past. Through illness and death I have been encouraged /forced to look at my shortcomings in this area.
I believe, you have to be a friend to be a lover. That took me a long time to figure out – okay so I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.
I grew up on the streets of Boston. Southie. (That's kind of an oxymoron – if you know Southie – to think I am pursuing a relationship with a pre-op TS or postop. Southie is a remarkably narrow-minded and prejudice pop. )
I have lost my toughness/arrogance (thank God) but not my bad boy. I can be an old-school gentleman; opening doors, acknowledging a new color lipstick, a change in dress, publicly demonstrating my caring and respect…and a slut in the bedroom.
Maybe it is important to know ... I am in Gilford NH about 2 out of every 5 weeks. In Hingham Ma the other 3.
Then – I started communicating with a few women. The communications were not sexual. (Some of the initial contacts were very sexual – but they were looking for generous men. That was more of what I was expecting.)
However – the more I spoke with a couple of women here, the more admiration I began to have for each of them. I am still not clear that I have the kind of courage it takes to create a full transformation. And I am not talking sexual – I am talking about living into a vision of yourself. It became clear how extraordinary it was for, at least one of these new friendships, she is a person who had this immense courage to live into massive and complete vision/transformation. I began to admire the courage, and in many ways envy that commitment. I have taken many brave steps in my life – but none so completely. In both of these new friends it is a spiritually based transformation.
As a result, I find myself opening up in ways I did not expect to happen.
This whole experience has turned head my around. I am very clear that I could be very happy with the right woman. This ‘non-traditional’ male –female relationship was not on my radar, nor thinkable in the past. I was unaware of the attraction which is now very alive. So... I am interested in finding a friend/mate. who is more interested in how she will be treated, respected, loved – than how old I am …damn I am 60. This was not in my playbook. But…on the other hand…at 60, I intend to live more by what I know I want than what will work in the view of others.
As to what I'm looking for – I love the tender, more feminine qualities in a woman. Women, some women have this ability to welcome a man in… In the past I have been made to feel more whole by this accepting, loving and often nurturing qualities in a partner (woman). I have seen this very clearly and profoundly in at least one remarkable woman on this site. I am a very open, passionate man...I am told I am kind, generous, funny ...AND… I can also be very intense.
I like to explore myself and others, spiritually and emotionally. I like art, nature, dogs, meditation and prayer, beaches, warm climates – Brazil, Costa Rica, St. John. I like National Public Radio, Gershwin, Stanley Turrentine, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Nickelback, Stones, Spinners, everything but Heavy Metal and Rap…etc. like to dance, ballroom in particular (though I am not very good at it – I have not had the right partner).
Through some very challenging times – I believe I have learned how to be an authentic friend, a lover and a support person. I have always been single. Never married no kids. And that is because I didn't really know how to be a friend in the past. Through illness and death I have been encouraged /forced to look at my shortcomings in this area.
I believe, you have to be a friend to be a lover. That took me a long time to figure out – okay so I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.
I grew up on the streets of Boston. Southie. (That's kind of an oxymoron – if you know Southie – to think I am pursuing a relationship with a pre-op TS or postop. Southie is a remarkably narrow-minded and prejudice pop. )
I have lost my toughness/arrogance (thank God) but not my bad boy. I can be an old-school gentleman; opening doors, acknowledging a new color lipstick, a change in dress, publicly demonstrating my caring and respect…and a slut in the bedroom.
Maybe it is important to know ... I am in Gilford NH about 2 out of every 5 weeks. In Hingham Ma the other 3.
Znak
Bliźnięta
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Klika Dodatkowych Kilogramów
Mój wzrost
5' 6 (168 cm)
Moje Oczy Są
Brązowy
Moje pochodzenie
Miks Etniczny
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Nigdy Nie Wyszłam Za Mąż/ Nigdy Się Nie Ożeniłem
Mam Dzieci
Nie
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Ręce
Moje Włosy Są
Mieszany
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Pies
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Nie
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Licencjackich
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Własna Działalność Gospodarcza
Moja Specjalność To
Sprzedaż/Marketing
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
od $75,000USD do $99,999USD
Mieszkam
Ze Współlokatorami
W Domu
Wszystko Jest w Porządku
Jestem Palaczem
Tak - Towarzysko
Piję Alkohol
Nie
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Przeciętny Kowalski
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Żartowniś, Obserwujący, Otwarty
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Komputery, Gotowanie, Tańczenie, Ćwiczenia, Uczenie Się, Filmy, Religia/Duchowość, Teatr
Idealna Pierwsza Randka To
I am open...dinner...maybe some music or a show..
Zawsze Chciałem Spróbować
don't start me on this...too broad a question..not much I haven't done..and what I want to try is too vulnerable to just put out there...
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Przyjacielski, Chłop Ze Wsi
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Duchowy, Ale Nie Religijny
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Raz w miesiącu
Mój Cel Życiowy To
live peacefully...live well...serve the friends and family i love
2nd...make money...live in (or have a second home in the Caribbean or South America
2nd...make money...live in (or have a second home in the Caribbean or South America
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Wiadomości, Dokumentalne, Dramaty, Filmy
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Akcji
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Muzyka Country, Taneczna, Jazz, Soul, Odgłosy Odkurzacza
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Biznesowe, Tajemnicze, Filozoficzne, Poezja, Religijne
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
Symphony, a musical, thai food, ball room dancing, Berkeley Performance Center
Swimming, the gym, a movie at home and cooking for someone I care for
Swimming, the gym, a movie at home and cooking for someone I care for
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Inteligencja, Wrażliwość, Spontaniczność, Troskliwość
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Przyjaciel, Randka, Intymny, Nie Ważne, Oddany